Loved and Lost or Never Love

LOVE Q is a new weekly meme created by Tot’s Mom on Short Sweet Poems where we are given a question with regards to love. If you would like to join, please click here.

Week 4’s Love Q:

Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

This is a tough question to answer as I have never gone through this phase (visit me on 31 May 2008 and you will catch a glimpse of my love story). So, this answer will come mainly from my imagination and from what I think.

Let’s view this from two different perspectives:

One: You allow your heart to rule. You meet someone who is able to capture your heart and your head can’t work as well as you want it to be. You know that you would regret if you don’t have the chance to love. Even if you have loved and lost, it didn’t matter. When the relationship turns sour, life still goes on. Having said that, when your heart rules, usually it will be difficult to deal with a bad relationship. This is when the head should take control.

Two: You let your head rule. You meet the special someone who makes your heart beats fast but you know this relationship would never last. Your head tells you not to start and you listen. So, in this case the answer to the above question would be NO.

Hmmm….. what do you think?

Let’s see what Mae and JM are up to.

Men A Woman Should Never Marry

LOVE Q is a new weekly meme created by Tot’s Mom on Short Sweet Poems where we are given a question with regards to love. If you would like to join, please click here.

Week 3’s Love Q:

What are the 5 types of men that you can’t stand and whom you think a woman should never marry?

1. Abusive men
2. Men who love themselves more and wish to change their wives to be like them
3. Men who never tell the truth
4. Men who are dirty (obviously I’m a clean freak and a neat freak)
5. Men who don't care for the family

Let’s check out Nurin and Abbey’s blog to read their answers.

Check out my answers for:

Love Q week 1

Love Q week 2

Love Q Week 2

LOVE Q is a new weekly meme where we are given a question with regards to love. If you would like to join, please click here.

This week’s Love Q:

When it comes to love, is it better to follow your head or your heart?

It really depends on each individual, on how each individual see “LOVE”. Some may follow their hearts but some may be too practical to let their hearts rule.

For me, both hearts and heads must work together and you would have guessed what kind of person I am.

I can fall in love but still tell myself to stop if he doesn’t make a good husband or he is not accepted by my parents or me by his parents. I love to watch movies and read novels on romance and dream about the romantic “Romeo” who would still be with me despite the objections by both families but in reality, I know I can’t allow it to happen.

On the other hand, I will not force myself to love someone who is good in everything if there is no sparks between us. How do I live with a person whom I would only treat as a friend or a brother? I just can’t!

Within me, I want my heart to rule, to let go of all worries and fears, but my head is there to tell me that there is responsibility that I should consider other than love.

So, heart or head? Let’s see what Admidrin had to say in this.

Love Q Week One

Created by Tot's Mom at Short Sweet Poems, LOVE Q is a new weekly meme where we are given a question with regards to love. Sounds interesting? Do join us and have fun. All you got to do is to click here and leave a comment stating your interest to join.

This week’s Love Q:

If you are being romantically pursued but you are not interested, what would you do to let the person know? For instance, would you be direct and blunt or would you drop hints?

My Answer:

Most girls would know how it feels to be pursued. I was rather silly when I was young, always feeling very scared and worried when pursued by someone I have no feelings for. A very good male friend of mine was always there to help me out with all my “love” problems, reading all my “love letters” and telling me what to do. Every time I told him I had to reject a boy, I knew he would be happy although he didn’t show. I think you would know why. So, my approach was rather direct but not blunt, rather straight forward but in a nice way. I’m not sure whether it hurts more but I’d rather not leave any boy out there any hope.

Read posts of other participants here and do also visit Tammy and Martini, two of the participants for Love Q.