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This week’s Love Q:
When it comes to love, is it better to follow your head or your heart?
It really depends on each individual, on how each individual see “LOVE”. Some may follow their hearts but some may be too practical to let their hearts rule.
For me, both hearts and heads must work together and you would have guessed what kind of person I am.
I can fall in love but still tell myself to stop if he doesn’t make a good husband or he is not accepted by my parents or me by his parents. I love to watch movies and read novels on romance and dream about the romantic “Romeo” who would still be with me despite the objections by both families but in reality, I know I can’t allow it to happen.
On the other hand, I will not force myself to love someone who is good in everything if there is no sparks between us. How do I live with a person whom I would only treat as a friend or a brother? I just can’t!
Within me, I want my heart to rule, to let go of all worries and fears, but my head is there to tell me that there is responsibility that I should consider other than love.
So, heart or head? Let’s see what Admidrin had to say in this.
14 comments:
Hi Jo-n, I have something for you
Nice write up. I also thinks head and heart should be together where love matters.
Here's what I say:
http://amidrin.blogspot.com/2008/05/love-q-2-head-or-heart.html
One must grow into the understanding of what Love truly is. Then you can't be misled by your body claiming to be your heart.
Very good articles..joanne.
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Hi Jo-n, Love your this post, always my kind of subject, *wink*.
I can see you a very sentimental lady....gosh, where were you when I was on the prowl? Ha ha, just kidding, you in standard one or kindergarten.
Who being loved is poor? Love is the beauty of the soul.
And only love let us see normal things in an extraordinary way.
By the, incidentally I posted something similar to your this post, pop over if free.
You stay easy and don't forget the red lipstick, *wink*.
Best regards, Lee.
Alas, my heart rules when it comes to love. My head just goes awol..
That is a really good answer. It's a tough question, but I think you got it just right!
Love? follow your heart!! :-) but your answer is well said.. hehehe.. so now I know why God give us both heart and head.. hehehehe.. because they need to work together.. hehehe
Yes, if we can find a balance, that's good. But sometimes, too much of tussling between head and heart can also leave us confused. I think I might have the potential to be that kind of person. Haha!
I usually start off with my head. The heart grows with each thing the head learns . . .
I've always been a little more logical--my heart gets a say, but it is usually not in charge.
Great post :)
I think I am with you on this one. A little of both are needed.
Hey, we hv vy similar thots in this. I'm oso a practical person n I don't u/std y some ppl need to die (esp in movies) just becoz they can't be with the person they love.
Btw, here's a tag for u.
that sounds like a good mature thought :-) btw, got a tag for you on mother's day... to wish you happy mother's day in advance
your heart and head work wonderful, no wonder u got such a beautiful Love :)
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