Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Demand Less and Thank More

There are many things that we ought to be grateful for but we tend to forget. We complain, we get angry, we feel sad sometimes but while we are having these feelings, we failed to see the bright side of things. Behind each problem, it may be a hope or a blessing! We never know.

I am very grateful:

1. To be made a mother. Motherhood is full of challenges, adventures and fun too.

2. To have a wonderful husband. He is not the perfect man (nobody is) but he loves me in his own way.

3. To have three lovely children. They drive me up the wall sometimes but at times, I feel like holding them in my arms so tightly and never let go. They are the most wonderful gifts that I get and I appreciate having them.

4. To have great parents. They are wonderful parents who love me dearly.

5. To be a normal person with no abnormalities.

6. To be staying in a house with a car to drive. Although I am not rich, it doesn’t matter. At least I am proud to say that I am not lying in the street begging for money.

7. To have a chance to teach children in the Sunday Dhamma School. This is a voluntarily work and I don’t get paid for it but I learn together with the kids along the way.

8. To have a chance to do what I like – write! Blogging is a great way for me to express my feelings and opinions and to get other people’s views too. So, if you have something to say, do leave me a comment.


I told my children and the children in Sunday Dhamma School this: When you want to complain, think of the less fortunate people and be grateful for what you have. Demand less and thank more.


This is supposed to be a tag from delittleones. It is about the 8 things that I am grateful for. For those who like this topic, feel free to tag along.

17 comments:

jazzmint said...

thx for reminding :)

Kellan said...

You have much to be thankful for - I do too. Thanks for reminding me!

Have a good Tuesday - I'll see you later. Kellan

L B said...

Yeah, we're always forgetting to be thankful, and instead get all worked up and stressed.. and think everything is not going well, and blame this, blame that.. If only we can pause for a bit, and think how lucky we are! We have a home, a family, food, clothes, shoes, car.. well, I think we do anyway! :-) There are so many more people much less fortunate. But I know tomorrow I will be complaining again!! Ok, will complain less..

Sweetiepie said...

Wow!nice tag!:)

Deana E said...

thanks for the reminder!!! need that

huisia said...

yeah, life is good if we know how to be satisfied.

gosh..it reminds me i still owe people tags..sigh..don't know when i can finish those tags.

Health Freak Mommy said...

True, sometimes we should just stop moving too fast, stop sulking and complaining about what we don't have and thank God for what we have!

Tammy said...

What a wonderful list of things that you are thankful for!

Tot's Mom said...

Reminds me of a saying: I complained I have no shoes until I saw a man with no feet. Learned it back in school, I think.

Eagles' Wings said...

One of the most wonderful person to be with and have as a friend, is a thankful and grateful person. Looks like you are there! A great character to teach the children too!

Shireen Loh said...

That is so true Jo-N. Its a lovely list and one we should all have to keep as a reminder.

JO-N said...

Jazz,

:) Most welcome.

Kellan,

There are more actually :)

LB,

Ya, let's pause a bit more...

Sweetiepie,

If you like it, take it please.

Deana,

:)Nice to have some reminders for ourselves sometimes ya?

Huisia,

Yes but people are often blinded with greed.

Shireen,

Hope we can all practice it.

Tammy,

Thank you :)

Audrey,

That's a very famous one and a good one too.

Eagle's Wings,

Gee, thank you. So, are we friends now?

Shireen,

Let's hope we remember.

Juliana RW said...

I agree also with no. 8 ;)

keeyit said...

Correct.. Last time I used to have a dairy just to write unhappy stuffs... But this will only make me worse.. So I changed my styles of writing. I only write thankful and happy stuffs now..

shern's mom said...

exactly.
we should be thankful for what we already have, we sure are better off compare to others.

Shannon's Mummy said...

Nice post! I need to learn from you... :)

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