Thursday, November 29, 2007

Stress Brings Negative Feelings

Do you feel upset or frustrated when your other children keep calling: “Mummy, mummy…” while you are busy attending to your sick child and your husband is not at home to help? Sometimes I do feel it.


I know that it may be a sign that I am stressful as stress can bring about negative feelings. Stress is really unavoidable although we usually don’t admit experiencing it. Nyn is having high fever now and I admit I am stressful.


I tell myself that my husband is not at home because he is working hard for the future of our family, unlike other men who go out for other reasons such as gambling. Often, these are the men who would go into debt and need debt advice. So, I shouldn't feel upset and should be strong in handling things myself. I have to be very positive and everything would be alright.


All in all, I should consider myself a very lucky woman who has a good husband who puts family and career first. Although he may not be as romantic as other men, he loves me and the children in his own way.

10 comments:

GarGies said...

Hope your child would recover very soon.

I totally understand how you feel when our children get sick. However much we heard, even from the doctors, that children do get sick once in awhile, we just can't help feeling anxious and stressed out.

Hang in there. Sunny days are ahead very soon. :)

Ling That's Me said...

I hope Nyn is getting better now.

I understand how you feel as I am feeling rather down these few days...

we try to cheer up together ok? :)

slavemom said...

Wishing Nyn a speedy recovery. Hope she's still active as usual atho having fever.

Shannon's Mummy said...

Sometimes my girl "mummy" Me until I felt I am rotting :P

I think it is normal we will have negative feelings on and off when parenting the children.

Oh and Hope Nyn is getting better and wish her speedy recovery.

Sweetiepie said...

Think it positively,And try to be strong.:)I know you can do it.Wish your child get better now.

Tammy said...

Having a sick child can be extremely stressful. I hope he gets better soon!

Tot's Mom said...

I think different men show their love differently. I have never seen my dad buying flowers or gifts for my mom but he definitely loves her in his own old-fashioned way.

By the way, you are now in cre8buzz as well. I don't go and network there too often these days. No time and I find people don't really visit your blogs from there. They just tend to leave comments on your profiles page. But no harm giving it a try.

JO-N said...

Thank you everybody.

Ling, I hope everything is fine with you. Ya, let's support one another.

Kelly said...

Oh! No No No!!!
Kid sick again???
Guess Nyn is perfectly fine now!

I really pay you my >>> 100% respect for handling 3 kids while your hubby is away!

JO-N said...

Kelly,

Nyn is well now :) Thanks.