After having 3 kids, I tend to spend more time with my kids. Everything I buy or cook or do, I think of them first. For instance, when I wake up in the middle of the night, I would see that my children are covered with blankets and my husband would go: "Hey, so you only take care of those that come out from your stomach and leave those that come out from other people's stomach all alone! (that means him!)"
Sometimes, husband and wife should go out dating, leaving the kids out, I mean. It seems a little cruel to the kids to leave them at home while you and your husband go for a dinner or a movie but this is essential to maintain a good relationship. Don't you agree?
So, yesterday, my husband and I went out for a date and we had a splendid Japanese buffet together (Will write about it in the next post) and today we went out again for a movie. Guess which movie did we go for? It's a very interesting movie where you would never have guessed who the killer really is. We had another wonderful time this afternoon. (So, I have been working hard not to neglect him. Haha...)
What a great husband I have here! With him, I am never bored as he jokes about everything and make me laugh. He's also a good daddy who loves his children dearly. How lucky I am to have him as my partner (at work) and my companion (at home).
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I have been neglecting my hubby a lot too. :( Can't wake up early to make breakfast...cook also, think of what the kids like instead of what hubby likes.
Dating?? Seems so far away... how to leave two young kids that glue to me like magnet and go dating?
poor hubby.....me SAHM also lazy to wake up with him in the cold morning, somemore he got to iron own clothes, hahaha....
ya, sometimes I tend to neglect my DH too. But he will constantly remind me...hehe...
Montessorimum,
Try this: When you are back to inlaws' place or your own parents' place, ask them to help see to your kids while you and hubby go out for a date (a short one).
chinnee,
Put in a little effort and try harder.
Jesslyn,
What a good hubby you have.
I'm like Montessorimum. Kids alwiz come first, then only hubby. Lately with my craze in blogging, he's even more neglected... till he's been complaining everyday!
Tks 4 linking me, i've linked u up too in my blog :)
Health Freak Mommy,
Thanks for dropping by and linking me. Hope to hear from you again.
Haha... now I know I am not the only one neglecting my hubby. I have a maid and so my hubby and I will usually go out when the kids are sleeping.
Yeap, me too. Now where am I going to put the kids. I wished I have more help.
Ya, I noticed that most of the women when they have children, they tends to neglect their love one. Hope I will not follow this step. :)
You have done well, Joanne.
Michelle,
That was my problem initially but you will find a way.
LiLi,
All the best to you.
Gee, I've been neglecting hubby more ever since Phoebe's here. Now to the extent that he gotta sleep in Chloe's room as Chloe & Phoebe's sleeping on the bed with me. Gotta find some way to make up to him.
Kerry,
No need to go dating if you can't. Try paying more attention to him and saying "I love you".
We've been msg-ing & telling each other wiv I Love You's until sien liao...Haha..Must find new way already...
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